Is love a weird chemical feeling that makes us blind and clouds us at the beginning of a new relationship? Or does everyone need love in a relationship.

Is love a weird chemical feeling that makes us blind and clouds us at the beginning of a new relationship? Or does everyone need love in a relationship. 

Love has become much more important in the 21st century. Various scientific studies have shown that this is because we are increasingly dependent on ourselves and have started to live more and more in social isolation. 

In the past, the upbringing of children was also different as a style, you wanted to make your children strong, independent and independent without much emotional connection and physical touch. 

At least that was the view. Now, even after years of research, it has become clear that children actually have a great need for a long, safe and physical and emotional connection.

This also applies to adults.
For example, research by the psychiatrist Bowly has shown that a sense of safe connection between loving partners is the key to a loving relationship and a deep source of strength for the individual participants in such a relationship. 

So it also has a healing power, a good love relationship. And the quality of our love relationships has a major impact on our mental and emotional health. 

Safe, physical and emotional connection with a loving partner can therefore literally form a buffer against shock, stress and pain.
Love is therefore a fundamental and primary necessity of life, just like food and water.

I myself have experienced the downside in my life that if a love relationship is not so safe and loving that it can exhaust you emotionally and physically.

Would you like to get started to learn how to learn how to deal with love and receive it more in your love life?

To change your limiting beliefs and old patterns, so that you can allow & embrace that loving partner in your life. please contact me via my coaching company 

Go Beyond Factory/or on 06-46344440). I would like to help you with this.

And a tip for the men: just give that hug to your partner when she needs it. Just listen to her for a moment and don't go into the solution.

Love from me!

Source: book 'Hold me tight' by Dr. Sue Johnson.

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